Week 89.29

Dear Nathan,
I think back to a couple of weeks ago and back then, I was thinking, I need to brace myself for the terrible twos. You were very fussy and whiny, you would throw temper tantrums over the smallest issues, and you were biting. This week you are back to being your sweet self again. You still get a bit whiny when you want to tell someone that you don't like them touching you, but you are no longer biting, and are using your words more.

In fact, you are counting 1-2, 1-2. In Mandarin. And you can pick out red, yellow, green, and sometimes blue objects. You are also a master block stacker. You are able to stacks blocks as high as you can reach. While it is very tempting to knock your tower down after 4 blocks, you are able to muster up enough self control until the tower is too high for you to build.

Your appetite has also increased. Just in the past week you have gained 9 oz. in weight. Crazy.

You are really into cutting your food. 

Potty training has also progressed a bit. You are able to go from post-nap time (3:00ish) to bath time (7:15ish) in just underwear. You have an occasional accident now and then, but you are able to sign to us when you have to go (or are in the process of going). We are working on taking underwear and shorts off. It's still a bit tough for you, but I'm sure you will get it soon. I am really liking this progressive potty training. No bribing, no pressure, no stress. We started it all when you turned one and slowly, we have come this far.

Here are some cute pictures of you being silly.

 One day, you and dad were just hanging out. I thought it was super cute.

Daddy thinks it's a bit weird when you kiss him on the lips. Haha! You sneaked one in. Good boy!

This weekend your grandparents came to town to visit. We didn't get to see them much, since mommy was a bum and didn't want to sit in a car for 4 hours to go visit the bluebell factory. But you got a chance to hang out with your cousins for a while. One day we went to a splash pad. You were a bit more timid this time around and you were very cautious around the fountains.

Another day we went out to have some barbeque. The restaurant had the X-games on and you were pretty much mesmerized with the bike riders doing 360s and flying off of ramps. In between your bites of ribs you would go, "woah" and "wow" as you pointed at the screen. After your nap, we let you watch a bit more of the X-games.

 After a few minutes of watching, you decided that you would mimic the skateboarders and jump around on the couch. It was cute to watch you jump, spin, and yelp.

Then, I had an idea.

This morning, we went to Austin's music and art children's day. We usually don't venture into the city for events during the week because I don't want to deal with traffic and parking, but it sounded like a cool thing to do, so we did it.

We arrived early, so we were able to find a parking spot relatively close. A guy gave us his parking ticket with 2 hours left, so essentially, we only had to pay a whopping $.50 to get you in. (Parents are free). You were handed a balloon, which you were so excited about, and we found a seat along the shores of Waller Creek. There were clowns walking around, blowing bubbles, and interacting with kids. I think they avoided the younger kids like you because you guys tend to get scared easily.

 After hearing a quartet play, we were very fortunate to be able to watch a show performed by the Biscuit Brothers (and Gravy). They were a silly bunch and you really enjoyed listening to them sing and dance. I did too.

We then joined up with our friends and walked to the art festival portion of the day. We were given free strawberry fruit bars courtesy of Blue Bell. It was the perfect treat for a hot day. The activities that they had there were geared towards older kiddos, so we just walked around briefly and headed home.

As far as things with little sister goes, all is good. She is now in the vertical position, and the midwife is pretty sure that her head is down. Yesterday, I went in for a 2-hour glucose test and while I passed the 1st hour test, I failed the 2nd hour test by just a little bit. Now, I have to go see a specialists and get monitored/counseled on this. (I guess I shouldn't have eaten that strawberry bar)

On a happier note, I've started to make a few pom poms to decorate the new nursery. They are quite easy to make, but they require way more tissue paper than I had anticipated.

Well, that's about it for now. Until next week.

Love,
Mommy

Bubbles, babies, and bye-byes of Week 88.28

Dear Nathan,
This has been a pretty exciting week for you. You seem to have made some linguistic leaps. You are starting to say more words like "ball" (finally) and "bye-bye." You have definitely relearned how to use 'b' sounds this week. We are also working on refining your signing skills. And on top of that, you are getting good at matching things that are alike. Oh, and your fine motor skills are becoming quite impressive. Today, you were able to insert the buddy bucks (grocery store play money) into the prize wheel all by yourself. You were very excited.

Yesterday, we went to a splash pad. Immediately, you were drawn to the fountains of water and started running through them. Once you ran right over a spout and got super soaked. You did not like that, but after awhile, you recovered, and was back to splashing again.

 We met up with your best friend. You guys had fun filling up buckets with water.

 After about an hour, you guys were ready to be done. We had some barbecue in the shopping center and then went home.

Your naps seem to be around an hour these days. You go down at around 1:20 and wake up at around 2:30. This leaves a lot of time for us to play in the afternoon. Since the weather isn't squelching hot yet, we've gone outside to play in the shade each afternoon. 

Your favorite thing to play is bubbles. I was actually able to mow the front law as you sat in your chair blowing bubbles. You get a better bubbles when you wave the want around, 

 but sometimes you like to blow into the want to make bubbles.

 You are also quite social. When you see the neighborhood kids out, you will go and say "hi" to them.

 And another favorite is water painting. This kept you occupied for about 20 minutes while I was pulling weeds. Afterwards, you decided to come and help me. I would pull the weeds and you would put the weeds into your dump truck. It was a pretty sweet system.

 One day we just decided to stay inside. While you played with your train set, I cut and painted pieces of felt to accessorize your train table. You really like playing trains on the table now. It's much easier than playing on the floor.

We had a super busy weekend. On Friday, Mommy and Daddy went on a date night at the Alamo Drafthouse movie theater. The babysitter came over just before 6. You played, ate, had a bath, and even let her put you to bed without any tears. I'm so proud of you (and the babysitter). One thing that I think helped was that starting that morning, I told you about how tonight was going to be a bit different and that your babysitter was going to do all the things that mommy and daddy usually do with you at night. Each time, you nodded, as if you understood what we were saying. I was so nervous about this, but in the end, it turned out just fine.

On Saturday, your best friend and her parents came over to play. The daddies took you guys to the pool while the mommies stayed at home and made ravioli. After your nap, we hosted a baby party at our house and a few of your birthing center friends came over to play for a bit.

On Sunday morning, we met up with another friend at the children's museum. They had a special day for members only. It was nice because it wasn't crowded at all and you didn't have big kids running you over.

I remembered to have Daddy take a picture of you and me. We just don't have enough of those.

 After the museum, we met up with another friend at a restaurant across town. I'm sad that we didn't take any pictures, but it was cute how you two were sitting next to each other eating.

Today we went grocery shopping right before lunch and I saw that corn dogs were on sale. That sounded really good for lunch (even though not the healthiest option), so I decided to get a few and heat them up for lunch. Well, you LOVED them. You ate the whole thing and when you were finished, you even asked for more. (And this is after having a handful each of grapes, strawberries, and corn)

 I now know why corn dogs are practically on every kids menu.
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Little sister is getting pretty big. I feel like I am now about the size I was about a month before I gave birth to Nathan. Sleep is starting to get interrupted by bathroom breaks and I wake up to aching joints along my hips (from kicking away the body pillow).

Each night around 9:30, I get a bit hungry. This was not the case with Nathan. Maybe this time around I will be able to gain closer to 25 pounds. I'm still trying to eat healthy, but I'm allowing myself to indulge in an occasional scoop of ice cream (or corn dog) once in awhile.

The nursery is coming along slowly. With most of the furniture still being used by Nathan, it's hard to figure out how to put the room together just right. But the walls are painted, we bought a reclining chair, and I have a fabric picked out for the accessories. My plan is to put some floating shelves in, sand and paint a chest of drawers (not sure what color yet), and create some canvas art. Here's a picture of what I have so far.

The cube shelves are from college. I'm not quite sure what is going to go in there just yet, but I'm sure we'll find plenty to put in.

The nesting instinct has also started to kick in. Slowly things that I've never noticed before (like dusty baseboards) are now standing out as if bright neon lights are pointing directly at them. So, slowly I'm doing a bit of cleaning each day.

In medical news, I've been accepted by the Ob-Gyn that I think I want to see. She's so booked that the first appointment that they have available is 3 weeks away. I'm going to go to the birthing center to get another check up and to get my glucose test done before then, so I'm not too worried.  This time they are having me do the 2 hour test as opposed to the 1 hour one that I had to do with Nathan. Once I meet and speak with the doctor, we'll make a final decision on whether or not we will transfer to birthing at a hospital.
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Well, that's about it for this week. The temperature is starting to creep up. I'm not looking forward to this heat. Hopefully we will get more rain this year to keep things nice and green.

Love,
Mommy

20 Months and start of the Third Trimester

Dear Nathan,
My my, how quickly these past few weeks have gone by. This week you are starting to talk a lot more. You have started to use the phrases "Oh no," and "No, no."  It seemed like before, you just nodded when you agreed, but now, you are telling me "no." I bet that feels pretty empowering huh? I also forgot to mention in the past few posts how well you are producing sound effects. Sometimes we don't know if you are screaming or if you are mimicking a machine of some sort. Most of the time, you are mimicking, but this past week, you have become pretty sensitive and will whine or scream if things don't go your way. For example, you threw a huge fit when we were finished playing bubbles and you weren't ready to put them away. Eventually you will learn that things will not always go your way.

We've gotten lots of heavy rain recently. One morning we went to the grocery store to pick up some crawfish for a boil. As we were unloading the car, you started to wander out into the driveway. My first instinct was to pull you back in to keep you dry, but since it was a warm day and there wasn't any lightning, we decided to let you run around in the rain for awhile. I'm glad we did because you had so much fun splashing around in the rain.

Afterwards, nice and dry you decided to push Daddy around the house.

 Today, we met up with your BFF at a park nearby that I never knew existed. It is pretty much in the middle of a neighborhood. It's basically a large pond with lots of ducks and turtles swimming around. You guys had fun feeding the animals. I was surprised at how well you could throw bread. (Must be all the practice that you've gotten with throwing other things around the house lately).

On Saturday, Daddy wasn't feeling to great. So we hung out for a bit and you helped cook. You have gotten quite good with the knife. I had asked you to cube the tofu, but you gave me small chunks instead...which by the way, still tasted awesome.

Then, that afternoon you had a pretty bad accident. You had fallen on top of the dishwasher drawer and one of the pegs punctured your cheek. The bleeding was pretty bad at first, but then it got better. When I took a picture of the wound, you even smiled for me. We weren't sure if we should have taken you in to see a doctor, but since you were in good spirits and I read online that puncture wounds heal pretty well, we used some butterfly bandages and liquid bandage to close up the wound. I am just thankful that you didn't puncture your eyes.

This week you have also experimented with biting. At first, you would be hugging my leg, and then I would feel your mouth brush against my leg and then a light bite. I flinch away and tell you that it hurts and I don't like "ouches." Sometimes you continue to try to bite, sometimes you find something else to bite. Not sure what's going on, but let's stop this soon.

So at 20 months, you are still not eating vegetables. I've decided that this is no longer a phase and that I need to do something about it. I don't know what yet, but I will figure it out somehow.

As far as the pregnancy goes, I'm thinking about making a huge change: transferring to a hospital to give birth instead of the birthing center. Here are the main 2 reasons: 1) Cost. A hospital birth with our insurance has us paying $280 out of pocket. The birthing center is not covered under our insurance (but the midwives are) so we are paying a little bit over 10 times the cost of a hospital birth. 2) Jaundice worries. I found out that our second baby will have a higher chance of developing jaundice. After the experience with Nathan, I don't want to repeat that again.

But, having a natural, unmedicated birth is important to me. If it was necessary to receive drugs or to get a c-section, I would accept it. But a part of me (based on statistics) distrusts labor and delivery doctors. C-section rates have increased so much since the beginning of time and I don't want to have one if I can avoid it. With Nathan, the midwives used various massage techniques and birthing positions (as well as psychological threats) to help me push the baby who had a fist stuck under his chin. I think if I were to have birthed in a hospital, I would have been induced with pitocin (since my water broke with no contractions) and then ended up having a C-section because the baby's heart rate was dropping when I was pushing in a certain position.

Ideally I find a doctor who is knowledgeable and supportive of natural births, or I deliver at a hospital that allows midwives to deliver. I will be praying for God's blessing.

On another note, Steve and I will be going on our first official date night, babysitter and everything this Friday. I'm a bit nervous about how Nathan will fall asleep, but we'll see how it goes. Perhaps it will go smoothly, perhaps it won't.

Nursery update: I think we have everything we need for the nursery now. The room is painted with a customized gray (I mixed a bunch of old paint that we had around the house already), We have the furniture that will be needed and I've ordered a recliner for the room. I'm have a bunch of tissue paper pom poms to make. I'm trying to decide whether or not to hang them from the ceiling, or to stick them on a wall to create a 3-D wall art. The theme is going to be chrysanthemum and dahlia flowers with sheep. Colors: Gray, purple, light bluish green accented with pale green. I'll be sure to post pictures when I have more things put up.

Wow, what a long post. Until next week.

Love,
Mommy

 

The mystery illness of Week 86 and 26 for the little one.

Dear Nathan,
I am writing this post a bit late because we have been out of town and you've been a bit under the weather. Let's rewind back to last week. Right after you got up, we packed into the car and drove down to visit the zoo in San Antonio. We arrived around 10:00 and stayed until about 2:00. That was plenty of time to see all the exhibits and have lunch. I thought it was neat for you to finally be able to see some of the animals from your books in real life. You seemed to really enjoy it. It was the perfect weather too.

You seemed to have overcome your fear of reptiles. You pointed out "sss" (Snakes) without wincing at all.

It was also cool to finally see real ducks.

At the aviary, you enjoyed swinging on the bars.

You also saw a lion for the first time. I'm glad you were able to point it out despite the lion laying really still.

You also got a chance to get a view of prairie dogs in the museum's new children's area. Sadly, I couldn't fit through the tunnel, but you got to go in with Daddy.

Towards the end of the trip, this was your preferred mode of transportation.

By the end of the day, I realized that I didn't have any pictures of us together, so I had Daddy take one in front of the flamingos.

Later that evening, we went to church for a special MOPS (and pops) event. You hung out with the other kids and when we went to pick you up, you were sitting so nicely and watching the movie that they had put on the screen. You were so cute!

Monday, after Chinese class, we drove up to Plano to go visit your grandmother and great-grandmother. The trip up was nice. We got there in about 3 hours (after lunch) and you were asleep for about 2 hours of the trip.

This is also the first day of your mystery illness. You woke up with a runny nose, but I attributed it to teething because you had been drooling a lot lately, and chewing on random objects.

That night we went to a restaurant and you ate so much food! I was a bit embarrassed because now your grandmother thinks I don't feed you enough. But I was proud of how much you ate. You even ate cabbage and liked it!

Tuesday, we went to the mall to pick up some things for your great grandmother. While we were there, we went to the indoor play area that they have for little kids like you. You had lots of fun climbing up and down the structures as well as riding in the mechanical rides (which we didn't put any money in because you were happy to just turn the steering wheel). Other than a runny nose, you were still your normal self.

Wednesday, we went to Ikea to pick some stuff up for your little sister's room and you were very fussy and clingy. So instead of eating lunch out, we decided to bring lunch home and you had none of it. Not even soup, which you love. I put you down for a nap and then you woke up feeling really hot. When I took your temperature, it was 99.3 degrees. You pretty much just watched sesame street for the rest of the afternoon and ate nothing for dinner.

Thursday, you woke up, had your usual milk, a few blueberries and then threw everything back up. You were super clingy and ate breakfast on my lap. Around 9:00 we were sitting on a chair and you fell asleep on my chest. You never fall asleep on me. So I held you for a bit until I had to go to the bathroom. I tried putting you back in your pack and play, but you just cried and cried. So instead, I put you on my bed and laid down beside you. Within minutes you were asleep. You slept until 11:30. When you woke up, you asked for a banana, ate it all and just wanted to cuddle. At 12:30, you were showing signs of being tired, so I put you back down to go to sleep. I tried to go get some Chinese groceries while you were napping since both grandma and great-grandma were there, but at 1:30 grandma called me to come home and give you some medicine because your fever was pretty high and you seemed pretty miserable.

When I got home at around 2:00, you were dozing off on grandma. I gave you some medicine, we read a few books and then you took another nap from 3 - 5. You woke up happier, we played until dinner, where you ate nothing again. After dinner, I gave you a bath and you went to sleep at your normal 8:00 bedtime and slept until 7 the next morning.

A-zho (Great-grandma) and us.
You were finally feeling better to take a picture. 

Friday we were able to make a quick trip to Target (to get great-grandma a few things) before heading back home to Austin. We left grandma's house at 11. Drove for about 45 minutes and had lunch in Dallas. You had some milk, and a pouch of baby food. After a quick lunch, we were back on the road at around 12:30. You fell asleep pretty quickly, but didn't sleep long and around 2:00 started to become very fussy. I would reach my hand back and stroke your head to calm you down, but that quickly got uncomfortable. Luckily there was a stuffed dinosaur that I could use as an arm extender that worked for a bit, but soon you discovered my ploy and took my gadget away. You just needed to be held. Once we reached Waco, we stopped by a grocery store to pick up some more pouches and to walk around. Around 2:45 we were back on the road and you were back to being happy.

We didn't get home until 6:00. Traffic was horrible, but I am so proud of you for being so patient and content with playing with your toys in the back seat. You were happy to see Daddy and Teddy. We had dinner, which you again, ate nothing, except for a few sips of smoothie and your vitamins.

So being the web-crazed mom, I tried to diagnose your illness. It came down to a bad cold, the flu, or hand foot and mouth disease. You were not eating, had a fever, and feeling bad in general. In addition to the recent outbreak of hfam disease in Austin, I feared the worse and kept on checking for sores. Thank God that they never appeared.

Today, you are eating a bit more, but you are acting like yourself once again. I am glad that this is over and you don't have to feel so crummy anymore.

Your great-grandma thinks you are a genius. She couldn't stop commenting on how many things you can do as an almost 20 month old kid. You were also able to pick up calling her A-zho pretty quickly. You would want her to do things with us. You wanted to show her your toys. You really liked her.

Still no new developments in language, but you are able to communicate exactly what you want through signing and pointing. It's also neat for you to be able to understand 2 languages. I really hope you don't reject chinese when you get older.

That's it for now. Oh, updates on your little sister. I can feel her kicking my bladder now. Yesterday during the car ride, I could feel something round (either her butt, or her head) jammed right under my rib cage. That made driving pretty uncomfortable. Other than that, things are pretty normal and I'm feeling pretty good. It's a bit scary to think that in 10 weeks she will be considered "at term." That day will come sooner than I know it.

That's it for now.

Love,

Mommy

Week 85.25

Dear Nathan,
I can't help but admire how much you've grown every time I look at you. Sometimes when you are playing, or working on something, you become a little boy. Not the little baby that I held in my arms just a few months ago. They say your kids grow up so quickly, and I'm just now understanding the truth in that statement.

You have been babbling a lot more. You will babble to us as if you are telling us something that we should understand. I'm sorry if we don't understand you, but in time we will. You have not been able to make the "p" sound yet, but since you can make the "b" sound, I'm not too concerned.

When we talk to you (in both English and Chinese) you seem to understand us pretty well. You nod "yes" a lot as if you understand, but I know sometimes you are just nodding. At least you are positive.

Cats are very fascinating to you. Other things that you really enjoy or will point out are school buses, the moon, birds, dogs, reptiles (especially snakes), and flying insects. Hopefully one of these days we can take you to the San Antonio Zoo, where you can see all of your favorite animals (except for dinosaurs).

Artificial noises still scare you. If you don't know what is creating a sound, you don't like it and will shake your head to let us know. But other than that, you are quite fearless.

This week, you've been climbing a bit more. (And falling quite a bit too). In the pictures below, you are playing with a roll of foam that I got for a cushion that I made for our upstairs playroom.

 Not only were you rolling it around, you figured out that it would be fun to climb on top too.

 This morning, I found you sitting in a colander. You were quite proud of this achievement.

Another thing that you've been doing is climbing on top of the coffee table. Sometimes you do it so that you can throw things like balls off the edge, but sometimes you just climb up and stomp around. You have also figured out how to climb on top of the pool table. 

 This morning, you wanted to play the piano on a seat so you pushed the little ottoman to the other ottoman and climbed up. By the time I had grabbed the camera, you were already working on climbing up.

  

Sometimes it seems like you favor Daddy more. Like this morning, you and daddy were playing under the table, when I asked if I could join you, you shook your head and pushed me out. Other times you have pushed me away is when you are washing your hands. You are pretty insistent on washing your own hands now at home. You don't want any help from me at all. You are actually pretty good at washing your hands, you can pump soap, rub, turn on and off the faucet and everything. I just intervene because you like splash around sometimes and take a long time to wash. One day the novelty will end and hand washing will become a chore. Then I'm sure I will be wishing for these days again. 

Things with your baby sister are going well. We just had our 24.5 week check up and everything seems great. in about 3.5 weeks, I will be going through the glucose tolerance test. I remember feeling woozy and pretty much passed out afterwards. This time the birthing center has me going straight to the 2-hour test. We'll see how it goes. I didn't have gestational diabetes with you, so I'm hoping that I won't have it with your little sister. 

Another thing we talked about at the appointment was jaundice. The midwife told me that the chances of babies getting jaundice increase for each baby that you have. They will be monitoring the situation, but I really hope we won't have to spend any more time in the NICU this time around. 

That's about it for now. Love you lots! 

Mommy (not Dada, which is what you sometimes call me)

Wanting to Love More

Since Nathan has been going to bed at a reasonable time, I've had the evenings to myself. I usually fill the time with curriculum planning, guitar, or "Nemo's Reef," a silly game that I'm glad that crashed and forced me to start over so I'm not playing it anymore. Recently, I've found myself a bit bored in the evenings, so I decided to start reading again.

I don't know if it's the lack of mental stimulation, or something that God has put on my heart, but I really yearn to know and love Him more. Recently, church has been uninspiring, and so I tried to find a book that may help me out. I'm in the middle of reading this one:

Without going into the details of the book, because there are several professionally written reviews about this book, I'm just going to share how I have been inspired so far. Almost halfway through the book, Chan describes the "lukewarm Christian." And I happen to fit the description perfectly: my life is relatively going well; I attend church weekly; I am somewhat involved at church; and I have a general plan of what I want to do with my life. My prayers have mostly been prayers of Thanksgiving, and I haven't really had to pray to God for anything. In other words, I haven't had to depend on God. 

But what really hit me hard was when I read this scenario that Chan paints of Heaven. Imagine a place where you get to be with all of your loved ones. Things are pretty much perfect. The only thing missing is God. Would you be ok with that? 

I honestly thought to myself, actually, I think I would be ok with it. 

But I don't want to be OK with it. 

Chan suggests that we pray and ask God to help us learn to Love him more. So, I guess if you are reading this, I'm asking for your prayers in this matter. I want to genuinely love God because He is so worthy of our love. I want to understand this love so that I can guide my children into loving God, and knowing Him in a personal and relevant way. How awesome would that be? 

In college, I met a girl who was truly in love with God. You could just tell and if she weren't so genuine about it, it probably would've been border line annoying. To her, God was not an idea or someone she mentioned only at church or when discussing religious matters, God was the reason she would say things. Almost everything that came out of her mouth exhibited an adoration for God's works. It was inspiring to be around her. 

So, I know that it is possible. To truly know and love God not lukewarmly, but passionately, and intentionally, all the time. May God help me. 

Week 84.24

Dear Nathan,
I want to start off this post by announcing that you ate vegetables yesterday! First it was at HEB. You ate 2 bites of zucchini at the samples station. And then at dinner, you had a whole slice of veggie quiche (Which had spinach, zucchini, bell peppers and tomatoes, but you didn't like those). So then we had it again for lunch today and you took only a few bites and was not interested. But you weren't really hungry in general, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that this trend continues.

Nathan helping to make veggie quiches. Added ingredients and mixed them with the egg. Great job!

Clapping (or signing "more") for yummy veggie quiche!

There was a moment this past weekend where I was very proud of you. We all went to one of our friend's birthday party and there was really only one other baby there. Since she was younger, I asked you to show her how to play your piano. You took her hand and showed her how to bang, I mean, play the keys. You even looked at her to watch for a reaction. You are getting better at sharing and it seems like you are throwing less tantrums than you were last week. So, that's good.

Thursday night, you woke up right as we were about to go to sleep and it took us about 1.75 hours to finally get you back asleep. The normal bedtime routine re-do just didn't cut it, so Daddy had to step in and he tried rocking you to sleep. After about 15 minutes of rocking and you still not falling asleep, he put you in your crib. You cried for about 5 minutes and just as I was about to go upstairs to give you more cuddles, you stopped crying and in a few minutes, fell asleep. It turns out you were feeling pretty bad because the next day, you were coughing like crazy. Luckily, it didn't last too long because after a night of turning the humidifier on in your room, your persistent dry cough progressed to a very occasional loose cough the next day.

On Monday, I decided to do a test run on potty training. Here's a picture to document this momentous occasion.

First try

Cute Training Whitey Tighties

We even got you a few training underwear, a new potty and a potty book. For one afternoon, I had you just wear the training diapers and throughout the afternoon, I would ask you if you needed to use the potty. I found out that the training pants don't work too well for you because they feel too much like your cloth diapers, so you just went #1 in them. Luckily, this happened while I was mopping so I was able to easily clean everything up.

Afterwards I just had you run around sans diaper for the rest of the afternoon. While we had many successful pees, there were a few accidents. You would start to go and then I would whisk you onto your potty. You would finish, point, and insist on pouring the contents into the big toilet. (you do this by pointing to the potty and then pointing to yourself).

Final verdict on potty training readiness. I think we still need to wait a bit for #1. You are starting to get better at telling us when you need to go #2, but you still need to understand the sensation of having to go #1. You can hold it once you realize, but I think you need more bladder control before we go down to intense potty training. For now, I will just continue to have you go #2 in your potty and depend on diapers for the other stuff.

As far as naps go, you are down to one 1.25 hour nap each day. You will go down at around 1:15 and wake up around 2:30. This doesn't give me much time to get things done, but it seems like it's easier for me to do chores while you are awake these days anyways. You usually play by yourself, or you are helping me.

Yesterday, we met up with your cousin at the library. Unfortunately, there was no story time, but we were able to go to the park and play a bit before lunch time. You cousin is very affectionate and was hugging and kissing you on the cheek the whole time. Sometimes you enjoyed it, sometimes you pushed her away. It's not nice to push.

It's so amazing to see how big you are getting. When I take a peek at you through the baby monitor, I no longer see a little baby, I see a little (or to me, big) boy.

Well, that's it for this week. We'll see how things go this next week.
Mommy

Update on Honeybun II: Things are going well. I'm getting more energy and recently have desired to nap less. I'm still taking Zumba classes 1-2 times a week and have resumed lifting weights once again. The prenatal yoga class that I went to was not challenging enough for me, so I'm going to a body flow class at the gym. Many of the poses that we do are great for pregnancy. I'm thinking I will be going to this afternoon class from now on.

I'd have to admit that I'm not eating as healthy as I was when I was pregnant with Nathan. I've definitely upped my sugar intake (with Nathan I avoided sugar like the plague), but I think I need to reduce it for the little one's sake. I'm eating more junk food like chips and ice cream, but I'm also making sure I'm eating healthy foods too...so I guess that's ok. So far, I'm up about 9-10 pounds from when I started.

The new nursery has not even been painted. I need to go and find some fabric to help me coordinate the colors of the nursery. I'm hoping to do a purplish sheep room, but not too girly. We'll see if I can make it happen.

Here's a bump pic from today, at 23.5 weeks

The same shot from Nathan's pregnancy at 22 weeks. 

It's cool to see how I'm carrying lower this time around. Even though these pictures are one week apart, this belly is a bit bigger.

So, my goal for this week is to consume less sugar... after I finish this papaya smoothie.