Shenanigans in Chicago

Dear Nathan, Hannah, and Hailey, 

On New Years Eve, we returned from a 10 day trip to...

that's right, Chicago. But before I go into the details of our adventures, let's rewind back to some of the highlights before the trip. 

Hannah, you were an angel in your class's performance of "Away in a Manger." I don't think I will ever forget the quiet, but angelic voices as you all sang and performed hand motions to go along with the song. I'm so glad that this phase of life is not over because in 2 years, Hailey will get to attend preschool too. 

 We then went with some friends to visit a light show put on by a college student who collects donations to grant wishes for Make a Wish foundation. We were very impressed by the intricately wrapped trees. His dad said that starting in August, the kid would drive home from college on the weekends to set everything up. What an inspiring story! 

 On the last day of school, Nathan's class put on a play for the parents. It was the Gingerbread Cowboy. Nathan, being one of the 2 narrators, complained about your role. You were very disappointed about how you could only sit and not run around on the stage.

Everyone remembered their lines and did a great job. You guys even wrapped up the performance with the classical choral piece, "Deep in the Heart of Texas."

The next day, we boarded an airplane and headed north to Chicago. Hailey was quite the squirmy worm, but right when I thought I couldn't take it any longer, you slept for about 40 minutes, which helped a bit.

The first day there, we visited grandma's parents and we celebrated Christmas early with the cousins (once removed...I think?) 

 We ate pizza and went swimming, what could be better?!?!

 Although we only got about a half inch of snow while we were there, there was enough snow left over from the last snow that we were able to make a tiny snowman.

One morning, you guys went to go see the new Mary Poppins movie. I didn't get to go because Hailey needed to take a nap and I was still coughing (boo). Overall, everyone enjoyed the movie. We then spent that afternoon at the local library, which I absolutely love. Even though our own local branch is getting renovated, I don't think it will even come close to this place when it is finished. Besides having an amazing selection of books, Hailey had lots of fun playing on the sensory board.

 And Hannah, you had a grand time building this giant ball ramp with me and Hailey while Nathan was reading his book.

 Hailey, you being newly introduced to slides and slightly obsessed with them at this point, decided that this would make a good slide...but you quickly discovered the forces of friction because cotton on foam does not make for a thrilling ride.

 The static between the foam made for some interesting pictures.

 Crazy hair!

The next day, Christmas eve, we visit grandpa's parents and great grandpa gives you a quick brush up lesson on the gut bucket. Nathan, you've been talking about this and looking forward to playing it even before we left Texas.

And the three of you worked together to create a path that gave the marbles a run for their money. Hailey, it's so nice to know that you've finally started to figure out what things are food and what is not. I love this toy. We have a similar set at our house with lots of pieces, but I just like how this one is designed so much better.

 That evening, you guys decorated Christmas tree cookies with grandma. They had to be Christmas trees because Uncle Timmy said that Santa's favorite cookies were the Christmas tree ones.

 You guys left out these cookies, with a message written by Nathan for Santa, and the reindeer got a few cups of shredded carrots for a little treat. Hannah, you were very upset at yourself for forgetting to bring your reindeer food that you made at school.

 So Christmas morning came, we opened presents, went to church (I stayed home because I was still coughing pretty badly) and when we had some down time, Nathan, you helped Uncle Timmy build the model of the Mayflower that we gave him.

 For lunch, we went to grandpa's parents' house for a Christmas party. I didn't do a great job of taking pictures because it is hands down my favorite event of the year and I was just too in-the-moment to remember. There's always a pot luck meal, a hilarious game of a white elephant gift exchange where it is possible to leave with 3 ridiculous gifts, or no gifts (which is usually the better end of the deal).

And then after the real presents are opened, the Christmas band reunites for their annual show. Nathan, opened the show with an amazing gut bucket performance until you suffered an injury when your toe and the broomstick had a meeting. Afterwards, you migrated to the role of interpretive dancer / drummer. I remember Daddy and I having to stop playing because we were keeling over in laughter. Nathan, you've got a lot of heart when you dance. That's all I have to say. Hannah, you faithfully kept the rhythm of the band going with your impressive bongo playing.

 And then Nathan, you became the photographer and took lots of great videos of our musical selections. Great grandma and grandpa have lots of figures that sing when you push a button or walk past a sensor. All three of you just loved playing with the figures and making them sing. There was never a quiet moment. So much fun!!!

 The next day, we decided to have Hailey nap on the go and we drove up to Wisconsin to visit the Jelly Belly factory for the umpteenth time, but only because they revamped their tour video... which was very good.

 There's a bunch of little and interesting museums in Kenosha, so we stopped by the natural history museum, 

 and even rode the trolley around the loop.

 And then we stopped by the dinosaur museum, which was the old post office that was literally moved down the street back in the late 30's.

 The next day we went back to visit great grandma and had lunch. Afterwards we played a few games and said our final good-byes (unbeknownst to us because she ended up getting very sick the next day).

 That afternoon we stopped by the chocolate shop that grandma works at and you both got a chance to dip various things in chocolate and decorate those things with more sugar.

 Grandma and grandpa have something that is very rare in Texas: a basement. You guys spent about an hour or so each day playing downstairs. They have a pinball machine, a little bowling game, hockey sticks,

 and even little vintage pedal cars. I know lots of memories have been made in the basement.

 The next day we traveled an hour to Rockford and visited their Children's museum. Wow, it was AMAZING! The largest and best children's museum that I've been to. The museum had lots of places for imaginary play, but also had stations that really hit on all the STEM areas. The exhibits were all very well built and simple without a lot of bells and whistles, which is a good thing. We spent about 4 hours there and could've easily spent another 4 hours. Rockford Discovery Center Museum...visit it if you are ever in the Chicago area. Totally worth the drive if you have kids.

That evening the cousins arrived, which added another layer of crazy to the crazy that we brought to the house. It snowed just enough for you guys to go sledding, (except for Nathan who didn't want to go and was in a very grumpy mood when the cousins first arrived).

 On Sunday, we attended church and at the end of the service, they have the kids go up and dance with musical instruments. Again, Nathan, your moves were quite awesome.

 A light dusting of snow always just makes winter seem so magical. I had to snap a quick photo of the view.

 Between church and back to lunch with the great grandparents' we got in some more sledding. This time, with more light.

 And of course, hot chocolate and snacks to refuel after being out in the cold.

 Hannah, you and your cousin were basically joined at the hip. You literally called each other sister. This reminds me of me and my cousin when we were young. We were best friends and then some drama came between us and now we are not on speaking terms. I think I need to rectify this.

 Back to great grandparents' house for more family fun and sledding. I completely left my phone back at grandma's house so I missed out on more pictures, but Nathan got a personal high score of 735 on the pinball machine. (The high score is around double that). You were extremely proud.

 And then this brings us back to new year's eve. In the morning, right before noon, you guys all went back to the library for their noon-year's eve party. I think there was sparkling soda and snacks involved. I ended up staying behind to pack and had a good catch-up soul-filling conversation with my friend who I had not talked to since your Dad and I got married.

 That afternoon, we had dinner at the airport and boarded the plane. Hailey was pretty much awake all the way until 9:30. Your nap was in the morning and you managed to stay away (mostly happy for 9 hours) The plane was delayed at take-off, and we arrived just in time to see some of the fireworks shoot off downtown (around 10:00). All three of you fell asleep on the way home, and transferred to bed easily. And this brings us to the end of 2018.

The next morning, you guys opened presents from us and Santa and then we went to central market downtown to go ice skating. You guys skated around for about an hour and then we went to get lunch. Nathan, you finished an entire bowl of tikka masala curry all by yourself and Hannah, you were pretty close to finishing yours. You guys usually share a bowl!

 Since coming home, Hailey, you are now sleeping better. You've been taking a good 2 hour nap mid-day and then you've been only waking up once at night. This makes things so much better. On our trip, you were waking up sometimes 3-4 times a night...which made me very grumpy and emotional.

On the first day that Daddy had to go to work, I bribed you guys with doughnuts in order for us to go on a much needed grocery trip in the freezing cold. We ended up having such a good time running in the rain, and the rain died down just in time for me to load the groceries into the car.

 That afternoon, while Hailey napped, we made the sushi candies that Santa brought. The kits were very fancy, and I think we actually dabbled with molecular gastronomy. So cool!

Between the 2 of you, you guys now have 4000 pieces of  new Legos to assemble. You guys have taken over the office and there are lego pieces everywhere. Nathan, you spent 3 hours straight that day working on your Ninjago training facility.

 Today we spent the whole day at home. I've been reading Marie Condo's book and trying to purge anything that doesn't spark joy in hopes to live in a less cluttered house. So in between spurts of cleaning and purging, we play.

 By the afternoon, the sun was shining and beckoning us to go out and play. We explored the creek behind our house and took a long walk around the neighborhood. It was beautiful.

 And then when we returned, you 2 (big kids) went back to the office to work on Legos and Hailey got a chance to help me cook dinner for the first time. I set you up with a little cutting board, a table knife and a piece of chicken. You whacked the knife around haphazardly and only fell off the chair once. I'd say that was a successful cooking session. I think back to all the memories that I've made with the two older ones over these years and I look forward to making many more with you. 

***As we settle back into our regular daily routine, I think back and feel so thankful for being around family. I grew up around lots of family members and to be flying solo (without family) in Austin with 3 kids sometimes seems very isolating. But I am thankful for the close friendships that have formed over these past few years, friends who have been a source of encouragement and support. I can't imagine what life would be like without them. So if you are family reading this, know that we miss you guys always and welcome your visits anytime.  If you are a friend reading this, thank you for taking the time to let us share our lives with you. We value you and consider you our family away from home.

You Know You Are The Third Child When...

Happy 14.5 Month Birthday! This will actually be a catch up post (three weeks worth of exciting fun) from since Thanksgiving, but for now enjoy the following list that sums up being a third child. 

1. Your mother who has always made weekly updates since your oldest brother was in the womb goes 2, maybe 3 weeks between posts. 

2. Your sister holds your hand down a slide. (You now LOVE slides! You spot them and point them out these days) 

 3. You get to play with the Bear-nativity scene with your sister.

 4. Strapping into the high chair, yeah, doesn't happen ever.

 5. You are often found walking around with objects that could cause blunt force trauma.

 6. You are allowed to play chalk fairly close to the street.

 7. Your mom has learned to only stock washable markers around the house. (It's so worth it to pay the extra few bucks for the washable stuff. )

 8. You clap for yourself when you are proud of something.

 9. You like whacking others with an oven mitt.

 10. You have free reign of the stairs.

 11. You spend a lot of time on the floor playing with random objects with your sister.

 12. You get to load the egg tray with eggs after a grocery trip.

 13. You are surrounded with books and toys galore! At your age, Nathan had one small box of toys.

 14. You get snuggles whenever you want.

 15. You are allowed to eat a corn dog before the age of 2.

 16. You are completely content to be held by anyone. We joined Hannah's class one day and you just crawled around, laying on Hannah's friends and totally enjoying circle time.

 17. You know books are for reading and not ripping. I'm shocked at how you are able to flip through an entire bookshelf of books without ripping a page. You love flipping pages and looking at pictures.

 18. You still wake up at night to nurse. I'm sure I could probably let you cry it out for a few nights, but considering you are still such a picky eater, I begrudgingly get up to feed you once, maybe twice a night. It has been 442 (that's almost 450 days) of interrupted sleep for me. uhh. But I know sleep will come soon because this is all just a short phase.

Otherwise, you are an awesome baby who is happy, social, and curious. You still aren't walking, but I read somewhere that because you do a butt scoot, instead of crawl, you already are seeing the world upright, so there is little motivation to see things from a slightly higher vantage point. And you are totally right on that one. Walking, totally over-rated.  Which leads to

19. your mom doesn't want you to learn to walk too soon because she knows about the trouble you could get into)

20. You drop down to 1 nap a day way earlier than #1 or #2. Between pick up and errands, it's tough to settle down into a steady routine. But more so than not, you are only taking 1 nap a day. 1.5 hours in length. You are sleeping from about 8-8 an then 1.5 hours starting a little after noon. You are getting an average of 13 hours of sleep.

Ok, so now we are going to do a quick recap of past 3 weeks' highlights.

At the beginning of the month, we met up with Hannah's Godparents for dinner. Their baby is only a few weeks older than Hailey and Hannah is just a few weeks older than their oldest. If arranged marriages were a thing, I would set this up in a heartbeat because we love this family. 

The "Big Kids" Table

 The following week, your cousins from Florida came to visit for a day. We played at the playground, went out for dinner and then went to Mozarts to watch their light show.

 It was pretty amazing!

 Hailey loved the lights and was just completely mesmerized. I was very impressed with the show. Between shows, there was a piano player who inspired Nathan to want to learn to play the piano. You even asked your uncle if he would give you piano lessons over Christmas. I guess if you end up liking it, we'll set you up with piano lessons.

 Last week was the last session of tennis. You are still one of the youngest, but you sure have a lot of heart. I love that about you. You told me you enjoyed tennis, but you are wanting to try something else now. We'll see what the school has to offer in the new year. Or we may sign you up for martial arts class of some sort because I still feel that you need to get some physical energy out somewhere.  You have been having trouble with managing your anger and so we will be working on learning ways to manage those strong feelings better.

 Nathan's school also had a winter festival with games, Santa pictures and pizza.  You both had a blast, running around with friends. You didn't even miss pictures with Santa.

 Hannah, I love how you enjoy being outdoors. One day after putting Hailey down for a nap, I tried looking around for you and I ended up finding you sitting outside. Here you were just sitting at the front porch watching the rain.

 Later you went out back and played some more. When it rains, we get this little stream that flows and you had so much fun just splashing around

 and playing with the water that was flowing down from the gutters.

 Everyday at 3:00 we go and pick up Nathan. I just had to snap this precious picture. You two have really become so close and everyday I can witness you two sharing special moments.

 For example, one morning, you guys were just playing with the game pieces from Labyrinth, imagining that the wizards were fighting off bad guys. Your favorite things to play with are still legos, doll houses, and hot wheel cars. Some afternoons you two get so carried away playing that when you are finished, your bedroom gets completely covered with lego fortresses for different mini-figures. I always feel bad when I make you guys clean it up, but I'd rather squash your creativity than slice a foot open with a lego. Not fun.

 On Saturday, we prepped for our annual gingerbread house decorating event with the birthing center group. I decided to make shortbread cookies (which I think are yummier) for the walls. They are a bit more brittle, but nothing a bit of royal icing can't fix.

 We met up at our friend's house and it was byog (bring your own gingerbread) and all the families brought a few varieties of candy.

 Then we managed to get everyone lined up to see who had the tallest shoulders. This explains some of the awkward poses. But this is probably the best picture that we have of the group. Everyone is mostly looking at the camera and no one is crying. Win!

 Afterwards, you guys acted exactly like what you would expect a group of sugared up kids to act like. Let's just say there was a lot of screaming and running around.

 And then we had our last day of Chinese school for the semester. Both of you put on performances that involved reciting a famous poem and singing select Chinese songs.

 We signed Nathan up for the school science fair and one day Hannah, you told me that you wanted to do a science pyramid. It took me awhile, but I finally figured out that you wanted to do a science experiment too, so I set up an investigation for us to find the liquids that will make baking soda fizzy.

 And of course, we took data. This was fun. I really enjoyed spending this time with you. And I also need to remind myself to speak more Chinese around you too.

 This past Wednesday, we carried on our family tradition by visiting Wimberly's trail of lights. It's so worth the 30 minutes we have to drive to get there. Immediatley, you kids wanted to roast marshmallows.

 And then as we strolled around the grounds, we were able to snap a family photo.

 Hailey even got to play the xylophones that were in the middle of the garden. And as you can see, you big kids had lots of fun posing for pictures at the different light displays.

 And before we left, we got one last family picture.

This next week will be pretty exciting: end of year parties, events, and more. Nathan's class will actually be putting on a Gingerbread cowboy play and Nathan, your role is Narrator 1. You really wanted the scorpion part, or be the gingerbread cowboy, but I'm proud that you were assigned the Narrator. It's a very important part. At least you were not assigned to be the shrub. (This was a memorable quote from "Diaries of a Wimpy Kid," which is what you are reading at school right now.)

I love your creative spelling phase and with your permission, I will be posting a few examples the next few days.

Ok, well, I think that pretty much sums life up for you guys these days. Until next week, (or 2-3 weeks)

Love,
Mommy